Showing posts with label cost of divorce. Show all posts
Showing posts with label cost of divorce. Show all posts

Friday, August 2, 2013

Do People Actually Fight Over Reward Program Points During Divorce? You Better Believe It

Anyone who goes through an Ohio divorce will run across the term “equitable division.” This refers to the process of divvying up all the joint assets accumulated by a couple over the course of their marriage. The goal is to ensure that by the end, each party walks away with an equitable share of the assets. This can be a tense time for many couples and, occasionally, people latch onto somewhat trivial items and decide to square off with their spouse over seemingly unimportant things. A recent article in Forbes magazine discussed one such instance: people fighting tooth and nail over frequent flyer miles.

It’s hard to image, but there are plenty of couples who have gotten worked up enough about award program points to spark a legal battle. Though plenty of these cases are the result of overly emotional people engaging in petty fights, the author of the Forbes piece points out that in some cases there might actually be something to the dispute. For instance, cases where one or both parties travel frequently or are big spenders and rack up hundreds of thousands of air miles or credit card rewards points there can be real value there. Given the value of the goods that these rewards points can be redeemed for, some individuals are understandably reluctant to just hand over such a valuable prize to their partner.

If you happen to be one of the people with a serious collection of awards points or sky miles and are dead set on getting your fair share, what should you do? First, you need to brace yourself for some dry reading. Go through the terms and conditions of whatever reward program you are part of and see what the company says about dividing points. If the program allows a simple splitting of points into two separate accounts, perfect! That’s the easiest, and unfortunately, least likely option. For instance, Marriott clearly states that it refuses to divide points, even in the event of a divorce.

If your reward system will not allow you to divide the points, you can then look to see if there’s a cash value. If so, simply multiple the cash value by your total points and offset this amount with a lump sum payment to the other party. Usually this cash value won’t be so easy to determine and you may have to do some figuring of your own. For air miles, you can do this by determining how many points are needed to buy an international plane ticket. Do some rudimentary guessing about the value of such a ticket and then multiple that by the total points you have. This helps create a very rough (and debatable) estimate of the value of your reward points that you can then list as an asset and offset with other assets during the equitable division process.

Though it might seem silly to imagine wasting time arguing over airline miles, the fact is many couples going through a divorce choose insignificant items to latch onto and then bicker over. Whether it’s photographs, family mementos, collectibles or frequent flyer miles, the tension surrounding the equitable division process is clear. The best way to avoid a contentious Ohio equitable division fight is to try and take emotion out of the process. Resist the urge to fight for the sake of fighting and remember that it makes no sense to spend $1,000 in attorneys’ fees fighting over a $100 sofa.

If you find yourself facing the prospect of complicated divorce and have questions about your rights and options, contact an experienced Ohio family law attorney who can help guide you through the difficult process. Count on the expertise of Twinsburg family law attorney Carol Lee Stephan.

Source:Divorce: Who Gets The Air Miles?,” published at Forbes.com.

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Friday, June 14, 2013

What To Do If You’re Considering Buying A Home After An Ohio Divorce

Everyone knows that getting a mortgage in the current economic climate can be like pulling teeth. Banks have tightened credit requirements and now demand proof verifying all aspects of your financial life. It’s understandable then why people would think that a divorce and all the financial mess they lead to would make buying a house all but impossible. Thankfully, if you want a home there are ways around the problems if you’re willing to follow some advice.

According to a recent Yahoo piece, the key to getting a mortgage after a split is in providing the most full picture of your financial life. You have to assist the bank in understanding your financial situation by showing them your divorce decree, any and all child support obligations and any spousal support payments that go in or out of your accounts. All these things can play a role in whether you will be approved for a loan and it’s best to hand them all over to your banker right away.

The good news if you receive money in the form of child support or alimony is that you can count this income towards what you need to qualify for the mortgage. So long as the income is set to continue for three years then the bank will consider that income stream as part of your application. However, if you are the one making child support or alimony payments, the bank will reduce your borrowing ability as this income cannot be counted towards what you could contribute to your mortgage.

If you were divorced a long time ago you might not realize that the mortgage company will still want to see your divorce decree. Though it may seem surprising given the time that has passed, there’s no statute of limitations on mortgage underwriting and the bank will want to make sure you are not financially on the hook for anything even decades after a split.

If you own a house and are still listed on the mortgage with an ex-spouse you might not think it would be possible to ever qualify for a new mortgage of your own. Fortunately there’s hope. If your divorce decree clearly states that your spouse was given the home in the split and your ex is willing to provide documentation that shows they make the mortgage payments on the property for the past 12 months, then the new mortgage company will omit your ownership from your new application, vastly improving your ability to qualify. Another possibility in cases like this is to explore the idea of having your ex refinance you off of the loan. This way you’re totally in the clear in the event that your former spouse stops making payments.

If you find yourself facing the prospect of complicated divorce and have questions about your rights and options, contact an experienced Ohio family law attorney who can help guide you through the difficult process. Count on the expertise of Twinsburg family law attorney Carol L. Stephan.


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Friday, May 17, 2013

Keeping Control Of Ohio Divorce Expenses

Everyone knows how expensive an Ohio divorce can be, between the lawyers and the court costs you’re already talking about a substantial amount of money for most families. Complicated cases can lead to ballooning expenses when child custody issues arise or complicated finances exist. Throw in the bills for accountants, psychologists, custody evaluators and mediators and you’re talking about some serious money expended fighting your former partner. In some cases of especially egregious, a messy divorce is unavoidable, but these cases are few and far between and massive bills should not be expected in most normal cases.

Among the biggest ways to keep costs under control is to create a budget. Talking with an experienced Ohio family law attorney before launching your case and drawing up a limit is a good way to take the emotion out of the process. Coming up with a legal action plan where you work with your attorney to estimate costs in advance takes some of the possibility for heated decisions away. Rather than reacting in anger and lashing out, a legal case map that was done prior to the start of the process can help keep costs in check and your case on track.

Another critical way of keeping costs low is to avoid going to court at all costs. Solving the matter through negotiation with your spouse is by far the fastest and cheapest way to end a marriage. Mediation is another method to consider so that you can avoid appearing before a judge. The fact is that litigation is a very expensive process and your Ohio family law attorney will have to spend a considerable amount of time and money preparing for each court appearance, thus driving up your legal tab. Just remember that every minute your attorney works on your case is another minute you’ll be billed. By working things out privately you can take a big step to lower your overall divorce bills.

Another important strategy to keep costs under control is to try and stay sane while dividing up assets. In the midst of a divorce it can be hard to resist the urge to fight over every last cup and saucer, resist that temptation. You need to fight against the urge to argue and try to ask yourself whether it is worth thousands to fight over a couch that cost a few hundred.

If you find yourself facing the prospect of complicated divorce and have questions about your rights and options, contact an experienced Ohio family law attorney who can help guide you through the difficult process. Count on the expertise of Twinsburg family law attorney Carol L. Stephan.

Source:How to Keep Divorce Costs Down,” by Deborah Jeff, published at HuffingtonPost.com.

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